|Paris Street: Rainy Day Gustave Caillebotte|
You want to remember, Peg, just romance is not enough. You may often imagine yourself in love, but always remember you have to live with that person from day to day, in sickness and in health, as they say.
You will want to be proud of him when you introduce him to your friends, and you want him to be comfortable with them, as you must be with his firends. One must never marry a man thinking he will change or that you will change him. If he does or you do, then he will not be the same man you married, and the less for it.
Louis L'Amour in The Cherokee Trail